What happened when I stopped forcing clarity and let it find me…. I used to overthink my word for the year. So much so, that I stopped “trying to figure one out.” I’d brainstorm lists, Google ideas, journal until my hand cramped, and still feel unsure. Like I was choosing something that sounded good instead...
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The beauty you see in anything is the reflection of the beauty within you. The way you see the world isn`t random. It`s a reflection. If you think everything is hard and everyone is out to get you, that`s all you`ll ever experience. Even if the person or experience isn`t bad. You`ll find a way to view it as such. Instead be more optimistic. Look for those silver linings. Look for the blooming flowers through the cracks. Notice the beauty outwardly, so you can experience it inwardly too.❤️ X, Jenny
You keep trying to become someone new...
when you haven’t fully met yourself yet. X, Jenny
You don’t need to have it all figured out. But you do owe it to yourself, to stop brushing off the things that keep calling you. You wouldn`t tell your best friend to hold off on her dreams would you? No...speak up for her...for YOU.
Because the life you keep thinking about, the changes you want to make, they`re not random. They`re yours for a reason. Act on them. X, Jenny
You’re not bad at making decisions…you’re just afraid of choosing wrong. I say this from my own personal experience.
I used to be the worst to actually make decisions.
I struggled with the pressure of making sure it was the right one. Then came the overthinking. I replayed every option. I would wait for a feeling of certainty that never fully came. Not because I was incapable but because somewhere along the way, I learned that choosing wrong had consequences. So that made every decision feel heavier than it needed to be. But here’s what shifted:
Clarity didn’t come from finding THE perfect choice.
It came from trusting myself to handle whatever came after. I didn`t need more time. I didn’t need more opinions.
I just needed to feel SAFE choosing. And that started by letting go of the idea that there’s only one “right” path.
Some decisions aren’t meant to be perfect, they’re meant to move us forward. X, Jenny
